Not for the Faint of Heart: P31’s She Speaks Conference

written by Kelly Langston | Raw Christianity

March 24, 2010

So you want to be a writer?  Or, maybe a speaker?

I have a simple truth that I want to share with  you: Dreaming about a desire is easy.  Taking the steps to make your dream come true–something you can hold in your hand like a book, for instance–that’s the hard part.

This truth you probably know.  But let me share another truth that may surprise you: When God takes you by the hand (or sometimes the scruff of your neck) and plants you and your dream smack down in middle of His will, it can be downright scary. Why?  Because when God has a plan for our lives (and our talents), He is going to require us to lean entirely on His wisdom, His strength and His provision in ways we never have before.  If He is going to use us to bring glory to His name, we are going to come to a place of need.

That is why I want to share with you my experience with Proverbs 31’s excellent She Speaks conference. When I walked through those conference room doors back in 2007 I had no idea what I was walking into.

I’ll never forget it. As soon as my feet carried my introverted self into that room full of hundreds of women, all carrying their hopes and dreams and talents to offer to the Lord, I literally felt a wave of the Spirit wash over me. It was as if I had jumped into a warm ocean wave on an hot August day, a wave so strong that my knees felt too weak to withstand it.  I stood there shaking, taking it all in. The words that came to mind were these: This feels just like coming home after a journey of years. I know God is going to show up in a big way.

He did.

Whenever we encounter the presence of God, as I did during that 2007 conference, we will be immediately humbled.  I was floored.  What do I have to offer a God so great? And yet, He had called me there. Of this I was certain beyond a shadow of a doubt.

That is why I say this is conference is not one for the faint of heart.  You will experience God there.  You will see Him in the eyes of the women, many having experienced lifelong hurts, carrying their pain in on their faces, women who desperately desire to be used by God to spare other women of the mistakes they have made in their own lives.  You will hear Him in the messages and scriptures shared by the electrified P31 Speaker Team.  You will feel His arms wrap around you in a love that leaves you both delighted and trembling in awe in the same moment.

This conference is not for the faint of heart. It’s the real deal.

If God has placed a dream in your heart and you can afford to go, get there. If God wants you there, He will provide a way.  I know my God. He is Jehovah Jireh: The Lord Who Provides. When you go, go expecting something wonderful. Expect God to show up. I promise you, if you go there looking for Him, you are going to find Him.

So what happened when I was able to attend back in 2007?

God had given me a dream to share scriptural promises with parents of children with autism (like me) in a book.  I had no means do it myself. Yes, I have a journalism degree, but mostly I am a marketer.  No one knew my name. I had no connections, no money to self publish, and not a lot of time with an autistic child at home.  But I had a God Who loves to choose the least likely of persons to do some amazing things.  I am certainly qualified as one of the least.  I pitched the proposal to two publishers.  The following September I was awarded a book deal.  In March of 2009 that book, Autism’s Hidden Blessings: Discovering God’s Promises for Children with Autism and Their Families was released.

I wish I could tell you that the journey was easy.  It was anything but easy.  Writing the story was sometimes excruciatingly painful, as God worked His truths through my soul and then out through the keyboard as I typed.  It was humbling. I often felt overwhelmed, doubting I had anything of value to say.  (Thankfully, God provided the words.)

However the most surprising thing happened after the book was released.  Again, this is something I did not expect.  After walking on that mountain during the writing process in such intimacy with God, I came down off of it with a crash. When I experienced a taste of God’s holy power and presence and suddenly I could only hear silence, it was almost more than I could bear. I have struggled with the silence for much of the year, making 2009 the hardest year of my life.

There are significant lessons that God has been walking me through since the book was released. In the book, I promised readers that “If love is all I have to give my autistic son, then God would see to it that love is enough.” I want you to know that every promise I shared in the book is being tested in my life right now.  It’s almost as if God is asking me, “Do you really believe what you wrote? Do you really believe I am enough? All that you need?”

When I wrote that love would be enough, I didn’t expect to have to find it out for myself!  But with the downturn in the economy and with half of the household income that we had in 2007, God has proved to me that yes, HE IS ENOUGH.   When we can’t afford to take Alec to his specialist, HE IS ENOUGH. When we can’t afford his medicines, HE IS ENOUGH.  When I look at our list of needs and wonder how we are going to make it, I have learned and continue to be reminded that HE IS ENOUGH.

As I write this post, I am preparing to speak to a group of 150 autism moms in Pennsylvania. I cannot wait to share God’s love with them!  I am about to burst with excitement: Yes, God is speaking!

When I walked through the doors of the 2007 P31 Conference, I had no idea what God was about to do in my life.  If I had known, would I have walked in anyway?  I would like to say, YES. God’s way–no matter how watered with tears- is always best.

Yes, I would like to go again.  But know this: This conference in not for the faint of heart. You are going to meet God there.

Are you ready?  Say a prayer. See what God is speaking to you.  If you feel His nudge, Get going!

You can register here:

I forgot to add:

There is a contest to win a scholarship on Lysa TerKeurst’s blog. Hurry and enter by Friday!

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Kelly Langston sees prayer move mountains... and she writes about it. Author and prayer enthusiast, inspires through her writing, combining faith, storytelling, and transformative prayer to encourage deeper a rich spiritual connection with the Father. Having authored four non-fiction books and a series of "God Speaks" digital journals, she guides readers towards intimate conversations with God and recognizes the impact of prayer on our world.

  • Hey Kelly 🙂 This is an amazing story and so fitting! I have been blessed the last 2 years to go to She Speaks and it has been life changing. God’s put it on my heart to speak, but I am trying to fight him all the way on it – He’s not listening to me!

    I pray your speaking engagement goes well. Is there a chance you can come again this year? Did you know Lysa has a scholarship thing going on on her blog? I think this would be a perfect entry 😉

  • Wow, I’m sitting here with goose bumps after reading this! It’s definitely on my heart to go and I’m pushing out to friends and family to help with the sponsorship program. I also wrote an entry for the scholarships being offered. I’m praying for His provision. Praying for your continued ministry as well. God bless you!

  • Thank you for this post! I am praying that I’ll win the scholarship, but if I don’t, I know that God will provide a way if he wants me there. In fact, I know that my book will get publishing somehow, someday because it is totally NOT the book I want to be writing… it’s the book God is telling me “WRITE!”

    This was a beautiful post and makes me want to go to She Speaks even more!

  • WOW, wow and more WOW!! Sweet Kelly, I came to thank you for your note on my blog and your powerful comment on Lysa’s today. I commented to Lysa about your comment b/c when I read it I was totally COVERED in Holy goose bumps. God gave you a word today for us at P31 and I thank you!!!

    But girl. God gave you a word in this post for me. I needed to read this. I am writing my first book and it’s the hardest HOLY thing I’ve ever done. My heart paused and said an amen at several places in this post…

    “When God takes you by the hand (or sometimes the scruff of your neck) and plants you and your dream smack down in middle of His will, it can be downright scary. Why? Because when God has a plan for our lives (and our talents), He is going to require us to lean entirely on His wisdom, His strength and His provision in ways we never have before. If He is going to use us to bring glory to His name, we are going to come to a place of need.” AMEN!!!!

    “as God worked His truths through my soul and then out through the keyboard as I typed. It was humbling. I often felt overwhelmed, doubting I had anything of value to say. AMEN!!!

    I am praying now for God’s powerful provision for you!! And I have an idea I’d like to talk with you about this summer that includes some marketing project possibilities with P31 radio. I have to get my book done first and then I’ll be ready.

    Praying for you sweet friend!

  • Congratulations on your scholarship to She Speaks!
    And thank you for writing here with such love, hope, and honesty! I am finding that, indeed, following hard after God and the dreams He has placed in our hearts is NOT for the faint of heart. And my heart so often gets faint. How thankful I am for His Word to cling to!!!

    I am excited about all that God has in store for you and for the women you will minister to! And I am thankful for the encouragement I found here this morning. 🙂 Thank you!

    Blessings to you as you continue to passionately pursue the Lord and all that He has in store for you,

  • Kelly, what a beautiful post! I was at She Speaks in 2007 the way you described it was perfect. Thank you for reminding me how God spoke to me and revived my heart and vision during that season. Among other things, that is where God confirmed to me that the man I was dating would become my husband. It took him a little longer to get the message, but we’ve been married for 1 1/2 years now! Definitely not a message I was expecting to come from She Speaks 🙂

    Since then, it has never worked out for me to go back, but your post has inspired me to try to make it work this year!

    Congratulations on your big win! May God continue to give you every good thing you need as you continue to share the story He’s given you.

    What a gift you are to so many of the women around you!

  • First I’d like to say congratulations on the schlorship win and I’d also like to thank you for sharing with us your beautiful post! I entered the contest and as Lysa said, it is just not be my time, but I have learned that if, just if it is my time, it will happen in HIS time!! After reading your description, it is everything I imagined it would be, which makes me more excited to pursue even harder!! Thanks again and congratulations! Kelly (oh, by the way, I love your name!)

  • It’s more than exciting to celebrate with a sister!
    I’m so happy for you! God has big plans and this conference is like icing on the cake!
    Have fun. Grow and learn!
    This is going to change your life!

    And it sounds like you have a platform to minister to many affected by Autism!

  • What an amazing post! I can totally relate to what you are experiencing. My prayers are with you as you walk this journey in faith and obedience. Congrats on winning the scholarship. I have no doubt that God has BIG plans for you at She Speaks 2010!

  • Kelly,

    Congratulations on winning a scholarship to She Speaks!! Your testimony is amazing. My best friend (who has been instrumental in praying me to the conference) has a three year-old autistic son. What mighty women of God you both are. I am excited to tell her about your book. Finding encouraging Christian books for parents with special-needs children is not easy; don’t be discouraged in your work for Christ. He is mighty.

    Love in Him,

  • Thank you for this beautiful post, Kelly! You are an inspiration and your faith that “He is enough” is such a testimony for so many. Love that you have been called back to She Speaks and trust the Lord has great things in store.


  • Hi Kelly, I just discovered you won the scholarship to She Speaks. That’s great! I’m so happy for you, and can’t wait to read your blog next year to see what God does this year!

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